Earlier this month I had the opportunity to travel to Boulder Colorado and preach in the New Church of Boulder Valley. I preached on the story of David, Nabal and Abigail in 1st Samuel chapter 25. The sermon is called "Love Your Enemies." It could also be called "Listening to Abigail." It's about those times when we may feel like treating other people the way they treated us, rather than following the Golden Rule and treating other people the way we would like to be treated. It's about not being cruel to others or to ourselves as we attempt to stand for both the truth and love. You can watch the video here
My name is Solomon Keal. I am a minister for the General Church of the New Jerusalem, which is a Swedenborgian Christian denomination. These are some of my thoughts about the Lord, the symbolic meanings in the Bible, life after death, faith, charity, usefulness, loving the Lord and one's neighbor, the 2nd Coming, Swedenborg's Writings, and other theological stuff.
Thursday, May 21, 2015
My wife and I have found that date nights are really important for the health of our marriage. If you are married, I highly recommend fitting regular date nights into your schedule and budget. We have found that it is more than worth the time and money.
Sometimes we might have expectations about how a date night will go or should go. I occasionally wonder what the elements are that make up a good date night. The following is a little reflection on a story from the beginning of Emanuel Swedenborg’s book called Conjugial Love, and how it could apply to achieving the “perfect” date night.
Sometimes we think that a date night will only be good if we can just get out of the house. Sometimes we think that a date night will only be good if we can just get to a certain favorite location. Sometimes we think that a date night will only be good if we have an amazing conversation. Sometimes we think that a date night will only be good if we have a fancy dinner and go to a movie or concert. Sometimes we think that a date night will only be good if we get out for a walk in nature, or watch a beautiful sunset. Sometimes we think that a date night will only be good if we spend a lot of money, somewhere expensive where we are waited on hand and foot, and everything goes exactly as we want it to go. Sometimes I think that a date night will only be good if it goes exactly how I want it to go. Sometimes we think that a date night will only be good if we include some sort of spiritual practice like reading the Word or praying.
And yes, all of those things can certainly be factors in a good date night. But I think a good date night doesn’t actually depend on any one of those external things. . . I think it depends more on whether as a couple we are expressing love and being useful to each other in some way. When we mutually show each other that we genuinely care about each other, then it doesn't matter what we're actually doing, it turns out to be a great date night.